If this is a climax, I've been doing something very wrong for the last few decades.
Sexual prowess surely falls into the category of identity where self-asserted just doesn't 'make the cut' in inspiring confidence in relying parties.
It's like somebody saying 'people like me'. Let's ask 'people' why don't we.
I guess the old saw is true
It's not the size of your assertion, it's what you do with it.